Your first conversation with a stranger can be tricky. You might be tongue tied not knowing what to say while you are on the line. But have some faith in yourself. A phone call can be a good thing to do to know well about each other before you proceed further. Follow the simple tips below to get you going.

  • Though you are free to talk the other person might be tied up with some work and when you ask them politely if it is the right time to speak and when that person says otherwise then do not get too disappointed.
  • It is alright to be a little bit nervous on your first call and it can be a good start, but if you are a nervous wreck then take short deep breaths and remember the other person might be experiencing the same thing, so it is ok.
  • Make tiny preparations like simple notes and what you want to know about the other person, what you would like to say about yourself etc. Try practicing the scenario with a friend before the actual call. This will ease up your tension.
  • Be prepared on how to end the conversation in case you realize the person is not for you. Practice the scenario before in hand so that you will be able to respond well to the situation.
  • If you are uncertain on what topic you have to speak, pick up on a theme like a holiday destination or weather or a tv show etc. These conversations can be fruitful and fun and the conversation can be comfortable.
  • Even though you have a prepared a list of questions to ask the other person about, it is still important to talk about things like the weather or another theme. Remember in order to build a rapport the important thing is the sound of your voice and how you talk and not always about what you talk. You also need to pay attention to what the other person is saying and trust and follow your instincts.
  • It is natural that might have already known at least some basic details about each other. Both of you might be having some expectations.  So in order to keep the conversation going, ask questions openly, ones that can be answered with a yes  or no. Do not ask questions to which you know the answers already.
  • Maintain a positive attitude during the conversation, think in a positive way and that everything will work out.
  • Once you had a good conversation and want to take things a bit further ask the person out or just make a suggestion of a meeting. If the person also wants it then it is good for the both of you. If not then politely say you will get back to them

These are a few tips that you need to follow to ace the first phone call with a stranger.